Selfish?
Selfish?
Not only are men and women different on the outside, but also on the inside. Our brains are made differently. Men are better at certain tasks and women better at other tasks.
Many people say that women are selfish. I think that especially Japanese women are selfish. It is always,
"I'm hungry"
Or
"I'm cold."
Or
"I want this."
Or
"I want to do this or that."
The truth of the matter is that Japanese women are very concerned about whether you are interested in them or not.
We hate to be disliked and we are always nervous you will lose interest. It is not just with men we like, but with our friends as well.
We need confirmation all the time that we are important to you.
We do this by testing you. Are you listening intently to what we are saying? Are you responsive to our needs?
If we say we are hungry, please suggest we get some food or even better making some food would go a long way to show how much you care.
If we say we are cold or hot, please do whatever you can to make us feel more comfortable.
If you react correctly to our needs then we feel like you like us and we feel closer to you.
This is one of the biggest keys to winning the heart of a Japanese woman. LISTEN and RESPOND accordingly.
But it doesn't stop there. Many Japanese will start to be selfish once you have officially started dating, so you should be prepared for such an outcome.
Another important part about getting along with Japanese women is to understand the importance of peace and understanding.
We don't like to fight, even if some of our words/actions might seem otherwise.
If we ask if we are wearing something cute or pretty, always respond with a yes.
If we say that this food tastes great, please say yes it does. If we say we liked something try to agree with us.
If we feel like our conversations are peaceful and going well, then we will feel closer to you and more likely to start dating.
Please keep all of my advice in mind the next time you are talking to a Japanese girl.
Good Luck and see you next time! (*^_^*)